RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN FATHER & SON

             


father and son relationship can be a complex..we know that raising children is the central experience of life ,the greatest sources of self awareness ,the true fountain of pride and joy ,the most eternal bond with a partner . every father should remember that one day his son will follow his example instead of his advice....:)

                                   

father and sons with widely different interests can find it hard to relate to one another sometimes dad and son feel competitive against one another . sometimes their male tendencies to not communicate feelings are compounded as both want a better relationship but neither one quite knows how to about it .

 As i have watched my own relationship with my own father and observed many father and sons interact with one another over the year .i have identified some key elements to creating and building a strong father -son relationship:)

A girl's superhero- her father

A girl whenever faces any trouble she knows her family will always be by our side. But the person we trust the most,  our first love is our dad. He will be our first best friend, guide, inspiration.  Whatever we do, however foolish we behave he will always love us. Even our mother loves  us. But as everyone says a daughter is always closer to her father.  At times he might not agree to what we tell him. That doesn't mean he doesn't love us. It's just that he feels protective for us and thats his wqy of showing. The whole world may be against you may be at some point of time but our father will stand with us. Whatever I achieve in future, the kind of person I am, is just because of my dad. And im glad to hav him in my life. My first love-- my dad.

Peter Patter raindrops

I love rains. I feel rainy season is the most romantic one. The smell of wet mud makes me feel wonderful. I may be 18 years of age, but I still love jumping in small puddles of rain water. The best thing you can do in  rains is just laze around in your house, trouble your mom a bit to make hot or rather "garama garam" pakodas. A mug of hot coffee with some masala corn is the best combination during rains.



At 1 o clock when the school gets over I love watching kids carrying colourful umbrellas,. how excited they look, some prefer getting wet and then worrying their mom cause of fever and cold. I love to see plants having their bath, they enjoy, they look fresh, they look all alive and happy. I know some people hate rains because of power cuts but I feel instead of cribbing they can always have a lovely candle light dinner with their family.

Love for Nature

I love nature. Just because its not a human being that does not mean we can hurt it. It may not have feelings but at least we can feel for them, if we love nature it'll love us back. I asked many of my friends how they feel when they are outdoors. They told me they love the fresh air, the birds chirping, the roaring of sea and the flowers blooming.







For that matter even animals, I believe animals nowadays are more loyal than your best friend, they don't know what jealousy, selfishness and cruelty means. Our group member Kajal loves cats, Janice loves dogs, Shoil loves beaches and I love rains.







We all love every part of nature. We will share
our feelings for all these titles in our next few posts.

 

My loving Brother...

It was nice to grow up with someone like you brother, someone to lean on, someone to tell on! You know exactly when something is wrong with me, even when the whole world believes my fake smile. What makes our brother-sister relationship special is the way we remember each other even when we are apart. Nothing compares to the talks, the laughs, and the time we spend together.

Mother daughter love

A daughter is a wonderful blessing, A treasure from above. She's laughter, warmth and special charm, She's thoughtfulness and love.
A daughter brings a special joy, That comes from deep inside. And as she grows to adulthood, She fills your heart with pride.
With every year that passes, She's more special than before. Through every stage, though every age, You love her even more.

A Guy's First Girlfriend.. Mother!

Every human being today cries over petty issues. I still remember my friends and I used to complain about the heavy bag we carried during our school days. What about mothers? They carry their child in their womb for nine months..
At the age of 5 a boy wishes for a car, at the age of 10 he craves for a Play Station, at the age of 15 he cries for a phone, at the age of 20 he wants a girlfriend, at 25 he desires for a job, at 30 he needs a wife and so on....
His need and wants keep changing as well as rising. In the process of finding happiness and self satisfaction he forgets the reason of his existence. Well but for a mother all that matters is a smile on her son's face.
In todays world, I've seen how mothers are being ill treated, this feels miserable.

Well I realised its not the same in every house.

My friend Shivraj told me what he feels about his mother. He says his mother is his first girl friend. He doesn't miss out to have lunch with his mom every day. That's really sweet, in case he does miss the lunch with her, he ensures that he has a dinner date with her.  His mother is the most important person to him. He loves his mother till the moon and back.

 

My friend Aniket loves his mother a lot. He believes that his mother is more like a friend to him. She's very loving and caring. She is very supportive. He means the world to her. The selfie with his mother below tells us about the lovely bond they both share. He believes a mother is the most understanding person on Earth and he will never let her down.