RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN FATHER & SON

             


father and son relationship can be a complex..we know that raising children is the central experience of life ,the greatest sources of self awareness ,the true fountain of pride and joy ,the most eternal bond with a partner . every father should remember that one day his son will follow his example instead of his advice....:)

                                   

father and sons with widely different interests can find it hard to relate to one another sometimes dad and son feel competitive against one another . sometimes their male tendencies to not communicate feelings are compounded as both want a better relationship but neither one quite knows how to about it .

 As i have watched my own relationship with my own father and observed many father and sons interact with one another over the year .i have identified some key elements to creating and building a strong father -son relationship:)

A girl's superhero- her father

A girl whenever faces any trouble she knows her family will always be by our side. But the person we trust the most,  our first love is our dad. He will be our first best friend, guide, inspiration.  Whatever we do, however foolish we behave he will always love us. Even our mother loves  us. But as everyone says a daughter is always closer to her father.  At times he might not agree to what we tell him. That doesn't mean he doesn't love us. It's just that he feels protective for us and thats his wqy of showing. The whole world may be against you may be at some point of time but our father will stand with us. Whatever I achieve in future, the kind of person I am, is just because of my dad. And im glad to hav him in my life. My first love-- my dad.

Peter Patter raindrops

I love rains. I feel rainy season is the most romantic one. The smell of wet mud makes me feel wonderful. I may be 18 years of age, but I still love jumping in small puddles of rain water. The best thing you can do in  rains is just laze around in your house, trouble your mom a bit to make hot or rather "garama garam" pakodas. A mug of hot coffee with some masala corn is the best combination during rains.



At 1 o clock when the school gets over I love watching kids carrying colourful umbrellas,. how excited they look, some prefer getting wet and then worrying their mom cause of fever and cold. I love to see plants having their bath, they enjoy, they look fresh, they look all alive and happy. I know some people hate rains because of power cuts but I feel instead of cribbing they can always have a lovely candle light dinner with their family.

Love for Nature

I love nature. Just because its not a human being that does not mean we can hurt it. It may not have feelings but at least we can feel for them, if we love nature it'll love us back. I asked many of my friends how they feel when they are outdoors. They told me they love the fresh air, the birds chirping, the roaring of sea and the flowers blooming.







For that matter even animals, I believe animals nowadays are more loyal than your best friend, they don't know what jealousy, selfishness and cruelty means. Our group member Kajal loves cats, Janice loves dogs, Shoil loves beaches and I love rains.







We all love every part of nature. We will share
our feelings for all these titles in our next few posts.

 

My loving Brother...

It was nice to grow up with someone like you brother, someone to lean on, someone to tell on! You know exactly when something is wrong with me, even when the whole world believes my fake smile. What makes our brother-sister relationship special is the way we remember each other even when we are apart. Nothing compares to the talks, the laughs, and the time we spend together.

Mother daughter love

A daughter is a wonderful blessing, A treasure from above. She's laughter, warmth and special charm, She's thoughtfulness and love.
A daughter brings a special joy, That comes from deep inside. And as she grows to adulthood, She fills your heart with pride.
With every year that passes, She's more special than before. Through every stage, though every age, You love her even more.

A Guy's First Girlfriend.. Mother!

Every human being today cries over petty issues. I still remember my friends and I used to complain about the heavy bag we carried during our school days. What about mothers? They carry their child in their womb for nine months..
At the age of 5 a boy wishes for a car, at the age of 10 he craves for a Play Station, at the age of 15 he cries for a phone, at the age of 20 he wants a girlfriend, at 25 he desires for a job, at 30 he needs a wife and so on....
His need and wants keep changing as well as rising. In the process of finding happiness and self satisfaction he forgets the reason of his existence. Well but for a mother all that matters is a smile on her son's face.
In todays world, I've seen how mothers are being ill treated, this feels miserable.

Well I realised its not the same in every house.

My friend Shivraj told me what he feels about his mother. He says his mother is his first girl friend. He doesn't miss out to have lunch with his mom every day. That's really sweet, in case he does miss the lunch with her, he ensures that he has a dinner date with her.  His mother is the most important person to him. He loves his mother till the moon and back.

 

My friend Aniket loves his mother a lot. He believes that his mother is more like a friend to him. She's very loving and caring. She is very supportive. He means the world to her. The selfie with his mother below tells us about the lovely bond they both share. He believes a mother is the most understanding person on Earth and he will never let her down.

 

Parents' Love and Blessings

"Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother.."
"Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a dad."
Well our next Main Topic is on Parents' love. Every human being exists because of their parents. They are our first teachers, our first friends, our first guide and definitely our first love!

A small request to all those reading this blog
"Love your parents, we are so busy growing up we often forget that they are also getting old"

 

Conclusion of The Last Meeting

MINUTES OF THE MEETING

 

 

OBJECTIVES:

• Discussed about the previous blogs posted regarding the improvement and matter required.
• Decided the next four post titles for each member.
• Shared ideas and views on the above topics.

 

              AGENDA                                                NOTES                                        TIME LIMIT

      

1. Next title decision                       4 different post titles were decided collectively       4 mins

                                                                for each member of the group  

 

2. Main features of selected            Discussed the content of the posts                          10 mins

         topics

   

3. Gather appropriate                      Decided to ask friends and classmates about 

      information                               their bond with their parents i.e our next                  5 mins

                                                                           Main Topic

4. Improvement of Blog                  Decided to add more pictures to make our blog      6 mins

                                                                        look more attractive

 

5. Next meeting                               Discussed and decided a date and time for our              

                                                         next meeting and thanked the members for

                                                                            their presence                                         5 mins

                                                                                                                                          30 mins

                                                                                                                                                                     

Besties for life

Making millions of friends is not a miracle, but making that one friend who will stand by when millions are against you is a miracle!
Can two people of opposite gender be besties for life?
Well, I feel definitely they can! My friend Shivraj and his bestie Nikita have been friends for quite a long time. They are 'chuddi buddies' to be precise. They know each other from the day they were born as they were neighbours, they started their schooling together in Sharada Mandir School. In the 8th std though Nikita left school and joined The Rosary High School they were still in touch. They used to hang out together in the evenings and planned various outings with other mutual friends. They have grown together, they've shared the ups and downs they faced during the last two decades. They still discuss the problems and issues in their life. I believe, one of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood. Though they've chosen two different streams in life they still continue to value their friendship and give it at least a little time from their busy schedules.
 " True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island... to find one real friend in a life time is good fortune; to keep him is a blessing! " - Baltasar Gracian

Important Notice for Members

Date: 11th September 2014

Time: 3:30 pm

NOTICE

 

 

Our next meeting to discuss our next post title for each member is scheduled on 12th September 2014 at Miramar Nescafe at 5:00pm.

 

AGENDA

1. To decide the next title for each member.
2. To discuss the main feature of every topic assigned.
3. To exchange ideas and views on the four topics decided.
4. To decide the content of every post.
5. To collect and gather appropriate information regarding our topic from various sources.
6. To take a collective decision to improve our blog.
7. To decide the time and date for the next meeting.
8. Vote of Thanks.

 

SD/-

(Raashi Panvelkar)

Group Leader

 

True friend's love

Two friends Ashley and Mark planned an outing to a beach. They started the day by playing in the water.  After a while when they were tired, they came and sat on a bench and started chatting. A topic cropped up where they started arguing.  It so happened that Mark slapped Ashley in the face. Ashley was very depressed with this act of Mark and wrote in the sand that "Today my best friend slapped me in my face".  Then after resolving the matter they went again in the water.  By then the sea went rough and as Ashley couldn't swim he lost his control and started drowning.  Mark seeing his friend struggle risks his life to save his friend's life.  This time Ashley carves on a stone that "Today my best friend saved my life".  Mark asked him why he first wrote on the sand and now carved it on the stone.  To this Ashley replied saying when someone hurts us we must write it down in sand, where wind of forgiveness can erase it away but when someone does something good for us we must engrave it on stone where no wind can ever erase it.

 

Relationship-a necessity before marriage

Always try to solve problems that occur, understand what he/she tries to tell. Its better to have a good conmunication or at times even small arguments become must for any successful relationship. As people say LOVE IS BLIND they do not see to what caste the peraon belongs or to which state.  This makes any relationship base strong enough to move on to next stage. 

"CASTE"- the actual meaning

caste- the blade that has driven deep scars across hearts and lives.
caste- the poison that has split families.
And caste-the knife that's drilling into your soul every moment " I'm an XYZ. But he/she is an ABC. Now what?"

The Everlasting Love

The older in age, they are younger at heart,
I love my grandparents,
I don't know where to start!

The wrinkled face, the shivering hands
The gloomy eyes, the trembling feet,
Oh god! Tell me! Grandparents or Sugar?!
What is more sweet?

The day I was born
Was the only time they smiled when I cried,
They are my key to happiness
I am their joy and pride!

Right from their bed time stories till their future advise
They have nurtured, guided and loved me,
For I'm their only grand child!

In a family,Grandparents are roots,
Parents represent stem,
Am I so busy today?
That I have no time to even talk to them?

They've seen me crawl
They've seen me fall
They've seen all my growing stages
Just like a book is incomplete without pages

We all know humans are mortal,
During winter,
I want to hold their hands and show them,
The Gulmohar tree..
And tell them
''That's how my life without them would be!!''












 

Inter-Caste Marriages

 

 

Love cant be measured

It's a feeling that's to be forever treasured

Difference in Caste, Religion or Race?

The only thing that differs is the Face!

Every body has a soul!
Every human has two eyes, two ears & one nose,
What if SC, ST or OBC?
Why to side-line those?

How happy are those love birds
Even though to different castes they belong
The society is too judgemental
Who are they to decide What's right and What's wrong!

If two people are compatible
And they get along well
What else do you need?
Why do people want to turn heaven into hell!

Every body pretends to be broadminded
This is an issue that's prevailing since ages
The society supports corrupt politicians
But why not inter-caste marriages?